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34. Eat, kiss, run – enjoy.
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In a previous post of mine, titled ‘The idea of chosen time,’ I delved into how your time is yours, and it is something you own. When I wrote that, it was an idea I had only just begun to come to terms with and actually apply to my life…
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33. Peace found me in Paris, my most treasured souvenir.
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What a week – what a month – this October. What a thing it is to let time wash over you, to feel how it carries you and drops you off, gently, on an unsuspecting evening where you realise just how much everything has changed. I’ll never understate the relevance…
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32. Enrich your soul.
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Lately, I’ve found myself feeling rushed. As a final year university student, with a job and a half – that half being everything to do with this blog – pressure may seem inevitable, but I must clarify there is a difference between pressure and rush. What I mean are the…
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31. Beware the Cucks.
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People who change themselves around others are the saddest types of people, because all they are actually doing is broadcasting their insecurities to anyone who actually knows them, and insulting themselves in doing so. I’ve encountered almost every variant of this kind of person and found there to be no…
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30. Finding shards of reflection.
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A collaboration with Eva Phiasanaxay. Though getting diagnosed with ADHD towards the end of 2024 was the biggest step in understanding who I am and claiming the life I deserved, the most rewarding thing of all was finding shards of reflection in my closest friend Eva. It is unmistakable how…
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29. Symbolism in moving your room around and getting that tattoo.
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If you’re inclined to value its importance, you’ll find symbolism in almost everything. It’s all about believing in bigger meaning, not just what you’re given. That’s why I believe that the act of moving furniture around in your room stands for something much more than achieving Feng Shui. Growing up,…
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28. Making the best of a bad situation, and drawing back the curtain.
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These days it seems like trauma is everywhere, writhing between a kind of grief that comes with wishing you worked certain things out sooner, because now you’re left with the invalidating imprint of the past. And it’s invalidating because if left unchecked, you begin to spiral into a state of…
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27. Comparison is not only the thief of joy, but a murderer too.
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From the age of 12 to 18, I went to a school where the motto was “nothing but the best is good enough” which is a lie in itself because the majority of the students it churned out were sub-par to say the very least. But I remember looking at…
